So I am getting myself ready. Yes, because that is generally what is best. She is passionate about it. Stick around on this sub. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. They seriously have movies about it. If she is still Mormon and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church. But the loneliness and the hours ER shifts are taken everything I had left in me.
If you are in a movie theater, you can't talk, so you can't get to know the girl you are dating. A friend of ours who is going to grad school at Duke started complaining to me about how he had to work while Dr. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. What if she absolutely despises sex.
It has nothing to do with their career. I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. But it would not change my love for that person. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. Because what are Mormons about. We have almost daily prayers, scripture reading, and lengthy discussions about our beliefs. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone. Thank you for your blog.
Right now she won't even watch a movie. Jack is right about the demographics. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. Most of us were suckled on that teat too. Have any of you wives found the same thing.