However, if you are a Catholic guy dating a Mormon girl, then remember that her parents may be averse to it. It will help to come in armed with everything I'm learning from the different perspectives on here though. Also don't ask questions that are too intrusive, or those that you would not like to answer yourself. At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness.




There's no way a TBM is dating you if she knows about your Lucifer kick. That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed. Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off.
Home no title About Contact. Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. December 18, Please tell me you're not in NC, dagny. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. But he does want to get married to and to have kids. But I loved this girl more than anything in life.
Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church. This makes them overwhelmingly successful wives and mothers. I could go on, but this should give you the idea. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. This is normal for residents. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. It's the sort of super dismissive "all women are the same" attitude that I learned in church and left to get away from. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail.