With his busy schedule, all of the household chores laundry, dishes, cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning, bill paying, etc. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. There is a lot about Mormonism I am still struggling to understand, but I am reading faith-based memoirs and studying up on Mormonism as well as other religions but the relevance here is on Mormonism. They even refrain from tea and coffee.
Love in Different Languages. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. His hectic job aside, he is an amazing man, very loving and family oriented, which is what I have always wanted.
I keep the positive thought that it will get better. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville. You've all been so helpful. I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them. I believe strongly that I was meant to marry my spouse. Mormons are also taught "Families can be together forever. God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation. Here's my advice though: It doesn't sound like you want that though, so you're going to have to talk to him. I thought I was very understanding and, while I did invite her out at other times, I was very clear that her studies were paramount and I wanted to support her as best as I could during this time. Edit - I just read through some of your other comments.
I feel you on the loneliness. There will always be difference between spouses. Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it. Any advice from people who have gone through this would be awesome. I'm no doctor so what am I supposed to do twiddle my thumbs in our room while he gets back. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. If he is the right person for me, then I would wait and deal with the busy schedule in the meantime. Sadly, I'm not sure at this point.
