Getting Over a Breakup. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from.
See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. She may never join the join the church. I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. I couldn't stop thinking about it all day after reading it. I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side. I don't know if it's worse for us: For me, it's been an inner battle with myself, should I follow my husband or should he follow me as I am one year ahead. My husband is on call today, gone the entire weekend.
And that fairly constant theme has some deep implications your girlfriend will have to face. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. In our church, women are treated with more respect, and are considered to have a literal free ticket to heaven, simply bu because their female.
Now to answer you question more directly, I believe you should discuss your fears with him so he understands exactly where you want your relationship to go for both of you, otherwise you might grow resentful of him and he may have no clue as to why. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. I also know that whenever exceptions are made, there are reasons. You should also be willing to date other people. Just as secular marriages have problems, so do temple marriages.